I seek a partner who strives to the best of his ability to live his life according to the authentic teachings of the Quran and Sunnah of Islam. Someone who is religious (have the ability to distinguish between culture and religion), hardworking, kind, generous, sincere, patient, understanding, and has good communication skills. Someone who believes in equal partnership and is a loving support system and understands the sacred bond and responsibilities of marriage. Someone who...
I seek a partner who strives to the best of his ability to live his life according to the authentic teachings of the Quran and Sunnah of Islam. Someone who is religious (have the ability to distinguish between culture and religion), hardworking, kind, generous, sincere, patient, understanding, and has good communication skills. Someone who believes in equal partnership and is a loving support system and understands the sacred bond and responsibilities of marriage. Someone who would actively participate in household matters and has a positive mindset. Someone who will uphold Islamic values at home and in public with kindness, patience, and good nature. I would like a partner who is on a similar path or better, I would also prefer if they have been seriously practicing for at least 2 years Insha?Allah. Not interested if they engage in any of the major sins, eat haram, and are not actively learning their deen.
I am looking for someone who has good deen, and aqlaq. Someone who has a Bachelor?s degree or some sort of training/degree/diploma in order to be able to be employed (as the man is financially responsible for maintaining the household).
Someone who is financially stable: meaning as long as my spouse is not constantly worrying about finances, earns a HALAL income, and feels like they will/are able to afford marriage, the costs of maintaining a household, and fulfill the rights and responsibilities towards their wife etc. I don?t have any specific salary requirements.)
Religious - seeking someone who is serious about the deen, prays regularly, and puts Allah first in life decisions as these are important traits that I uphold in my own life. What I?m looking for in my husband is one that prays his 5 fard prayers (amazing if he goes to the masjid for them daily), goes to Jummah, gives zakat, fasts Ramadan, doesn?t have female friends and addictions, fears Allah and strives to be a better Muslim along with me, it?s our journey together in the dunya, and in Jannah In sha Allah. My ideal relationship is a strong and committed couple that supports each other in this life and is striving to make it to Paradise in the next by Allah?s will and mercy. So having Taqwa: Fearing and reminding yourself of Allah (swt) is the biggest thing for me for both people in the marriage as it ensures that no one is mistreated in anyway and that you understand your actions will be held accountable on yawmul qiyama (Day of Judgement).
Good Aqlaq/manners: I would describe myself as someone who is honest with a good and kind heart, I am a very empathetic person, ensuring that people in my life are well taken care of. I would like to be with someone who also embodies these qualities - Being kind to not only your family and friends but those who need your help, this goes hand in hand with being charitable and being willing to help those that others ignore. Someone with a beautiful Islamic akhlaq because good akhlaq is weighed heavy on the scales on yawmul qiyama. A person who is mature, truthful (honesty is important), respectful. truthful, controls their anger, is patient, thinks good of others, and is caring and loving. Being patient and not a hothead is extremely important to me, especially around children, animals, family, etc. Someone who is modest, completely covers your awrah, wears loose clothing, doesn't engage with the opposite gender outside of what is required (school, work, etc.), doesn't post on social media. Lowers your gaze outside your home and behind screens. Someone who isn?t vulgar or uses crude language or behaves in that way. Someone who is not only to be a husband and a father; but also, a partner, an imam, a leader, and a comfort zone to me and my future children. Someone who has the willingness to improve.
Hardworking and humble: Willing to do what it takes to take care of your family, hardworking in finding your place in Jannah, hardworking in learning your deen. Someone who has that drive or ambition to improve oneself; someone who likes to push himself to be better, both in Islamic knowledge and worldly affairs.
Family oriented - Before considering marriage, I took plenty of time to understand my strengths as a woman, and the rights and responsibilities of husband & wife in Islam. I have a calm demeanor, and see myself being a peaceful, warm, and loving presence for my husband and children. While I fully understand my husband?s duty to be career oriented and earn a living, I know I would appreciate having a partner with a family mindset that balances work and family life and wants to be involved in raising kids/bringing them up in the faith. Someone who can protect his family from harm, and himself from stepping over the limits of Allah azzawajal,
Comfort - not so much a characteristic, but I hope my husband can feel authentically himself around me, and not hold back on his quirks and interests, and can reciprocate with the same level of care about me as an individual in return. Someone who understands that spouses should be there for each other (support each other) when someone needs to talk, expressing your love for each other. Embodying the mawaddah and rahma.
A good communicator with a sense of humour: Someone who can solve disputes amongst their community, who can defend the honor of his loved ones, if need be, who can have deep conversations with me about anything and everything, who is expressive and is someone that is comfortable being playful and joking at times. Someone that as a high level of self-awareness, good communication, and is generally easy-going. I?m personally not someone who?s comfortable dealing with short tempers, yelling, etc. I would prefer someone who can calmly communicate their concerns, keep discussions and our business between us (obviously this is in normal situations and not talking about counselling or mediation), and try to see the best in each other (as well as speak well of each other).
Marriage is about teamwork, so someone who wants to work together to win as a team would be the best fit. the main idea is not being stagnant, whether it?s in your deen or your marriage. If there are problems, tackling them together and growing as a couple. If there?s something that one of us can improve or be more sensitive to the others? needs, being able to take those steps. Marriage takes work and as long as neither side is giving up, there is always opportunity to strengthen the bond. We as individuals will naturally grow throughout our lives, so likewise I would like our marriage to reflect that growth in a positive way, so we don?t end up growing apart.
Salaam!
NOTE: Respectfully NOT interested in Polygamy!!! (people keep messaging me about it please stop)
I wanted to take a quick second to very briefly introduce myself. (I apologize if it's a bit long.)
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Salaam!
NOTE: Respectfully NOT interested in Polygamy!!! (people keep messaging me about it please stop)
I wanted to take a quick second to very briefly introduce myself. (I apologize if it's a bit long.)
I am a very kindhearted and sincere person. I've also been told that I have a calm and patient demeanor. I am quick to help others. I would say that I am a glass half full kind of person. I try my best to always strive to look for the positive in any situation. I am very loyal, loving and supportive of my friends and family.
I have many hobbies; some of which are cooking, reading, writing, travel, and wildlife photography.
I can say that alhamdulilah my siblings and I grew up in a practicing family Mashallah tabarakallah! Though we are in no means perfect (as no human is) but alhamdulilah we always strive to live in a way that would please Allah first and foremost.
I am a practicing Muslimah who observes the obligations. I observe the hijab (no niqab/face veil) and follow only authentic Quran & Sunnah. I dress modestly (you will most likely see me in long dresses and minimal makeup in public). I strive to apply the teachings of Islam to all aspects of my life and live by its principles to the best of my abilities. Alhamdulillah. I am taking classes to strengthen my Qu?ranic Arabic and Islamic knowledge in general as I would like to build the best possible foundation for my own benefit and to be able to guide my future kiddies properly in this chaotic world. I believe that just because I've been blessed to be born a muslim, continuing to be muslim is a choice and should be transformational over time. I care deeply about spirituality and self-improvement, I would like to be with someone who also wants to grow in faith. On a less serious note, be a genuinely fun person! I?m not someone who takes myself too seriously and loves to laugh, and I really enjoy doing fun things with those who I love.
Deen is very important to me and is something I don't compromise on. Salah especially is super important and eating/earning halal.
I am not 100 percent perfect in my deen but am alhamdulilah doing my best to implement one new thing everyday and make it a habit. I like to be consistent. My approach is to do one thing but make it a habit, if that makes sense.
I have many favourite verses from the Quran but the one that speaks to my writer?s soul is Verse 109 from Surah Al-Kahf (The Cave).
Say, "If the sea were ink for [writing] the words of my Lord, the sea would be exhausted before the words of my Lord were exhausted, even if We brought the like of it as a supplement."
I don't go to the cinema/theatres though I will watch films at home sometimes. Mostly, I prefer reading or listening to audiobooks more than tv or streaming videos/youtube. When not pursuing personal research for various things or writing/reading away. I can be found with a cup of warm tea (if it's winter) watching shows. My preferred genre is Mystery, Historical, Documentaries. Usually though I prefer chatting with my friends and family and hearing about their week.
I've graduated from University alhamdulillah and am currently working as a certified teacher. But when I am not working, I always seeking to gain more knowledge, be it religious or otherwise. I am a very curious person by nature so I like to explore usually with my notes app or notebook in hand!
When I am not busy working or attending my Islamic classes. I like to dedicate some time to expand my theoretical knowledge by applying it practically.
Fortunately, which as of right now, the experiments mainly consist of trying out new recipes and having my poor unfortunate siblings or friends taste test. I am relived to note that not only is it edible but they often come back for seconds! (But please don't misunderstand, that in no way means I'm a pro, I think it just may be be beginner's luck! But on a serious note, some food recipes have produced questionable results)
Luckily, there are other non-cooking experiments such as trying to build and assemble various knick-knacks, learning how to sew, how to knit and the like but needless to say those are a work in progress! I usually rotate between those projects. And sometimes I just decide to catch up on tv shows or movies instead.
Do you want kids?
Very much so. Open to the idea of having kids.
Some facts about me:
I?m really good at trying new things or activities (I blame my curious nature) Although I may not be good at the task itself i.e. Juggling or Skiing, I will still participate and enjoy the process immensely. Afterall, its half the fun!
I'm known for:
Being a very good listener. Being approachable and friendly. Making people feel comfortable and at ease. Being supportive and encouraging (I think the world could do with a lot more kindness and mercy towards one another) Writing (it's been a passion of mine since I was six years old.)
Six things I could never do without
1) My Religion
2) My family
3) My friends
4) My books
5) My Phone + Laptop (helps me stay organized)
6) My daily walks
I spend a lot of time thinking about:
1) thinking about my goals in life and beyond and how to best accomplish them.
2) How can I better myself as a Muslim and human being.
3) Thinking about the issues around the world and how I can do my bit to help (especially in regards to the Ummah).
4) My next project
The first thing people notice about me
My smile and my kindness. As well as my simplicity, professionalism, and my empathy for others.
My friends would describe me as
Non-Judgmental, Positive, Kind, Trustworthy, Loyal, Caring, Patient, Witty, and Cheerful.
If you have made it this far than you are a trooper! Much kudos to you!
Also, please feel free to ask questions or for clarifications as I tried my best to provide as much information as I could to help "show" my personality/characteristics etc. I apologize if anything was said that unknowingly offends anyone.
Jazakallah hu khairan for taking the time to read all this. I wish you all the best in your search!
Profile Basics / Physical Appearance
Profile Posted By:
Self
Age:
28 Y
Gender:
Female
Country:
Canada
State / Province:
Ontario
City:
Toronto
Height:
5'4" (162 cm)
Weight:
188 lb
Complexion:
Wheatish Fair
Body Type:
Average
Eye Color:
Dark Brown
Hair Color:
Black
I Wear Hijab:
Always
Cultural Background / Social Background
Country of Birth:
Canada
Country of Origin:
Canada
Religion:
Muslim
Ethnicity:
Indian
Languages:
English
Family Values:
Moderate
Education:
Bachelors (B.A/BSc/BBA)
Occupation:
Teacher
Annual Income:
USD 20,000 to 35,000
Marital Status:
Never Married (No Kids)
Diet:
Non-Vegetarian (Halal)
Smoke:
No
Drink:
No
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