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accuiel123

33 Y, Muslim, Female

Hovedstaden (Copenhagen), Denmark

Make sure that you: 1. Have a clear division of labor so each person knows which parts of the tennis court theyre responsible for. In marriage we call this gender roles. 2. Communicate clearly and effectively with one another so no points are given away due to each person expecting the other to hit the ball. In marriage the husband and wife have to communicate well with each other to decide which nonobvious tasksthose that lie...

Praise be to Allah Islam is like the radiant sun whose light bears the proof that it is an eternal religion for all mankind. When I was a young child I used to play tennis on... Praise be to Allah Islam is like the radiant sun whose light bears the proof that it is an eternal religion for all mankind. When I was a young child I used to play tennis on the girls tennis team and I always preferred playing singles over doubles. Playing singles means you are playing by yourself with no one else on your team. You face off against an individual opponent. I found playing singles easier because it was simple. I knew that every ball coming over the net was my responsibility. No one else was there to share that responsibility with me. Playing a singles game is simple and straightforward. Its just you versus your opponent. But that being said it is also very draining and extremely exhausting. Every ball is your own personal responsibility. Theres no one there to help you. Theres no partner to get the ball thats out of your reach. Theres nobody to support you and have your back. You have to continuously be running in all directions just so you are able to cover the entire surface of your side of the court alone. Playing doubles tennis on the other hand means you have a partner. You are a team of two facing off against another team of two. You and your teammate coordinate and work together to make sure the ball ends up back on the other side of the net. This means each of you is required to make fewer strikes on the ball and you have less court space to cover individually. But the reason I hated it was because its very easy to lose when you play doubles. Very often the ball comes sailing right through the middle of you and your teammate. Startled your eyes meet then confusion and hesitation kicks in and neither of you hits the ball. They each assumed the other was going to hit the ball. Neither did and the ball bounced off the court losing your team the point. Keep playing like this and you lose the game the set and the match. You walk off the court feeling defeated and disappointed. Marriage can be a little like playing doubles tennis. The only way for you to win as a team is for you to each have welldefined roles and you must both communicate clearly with your partner. The two of you must coordinate so that nothing falls through the cracks. Each person knows exactly what they are responsible for. You know youre on the same team and that youve got each others backs. However you still need to talk about whos going to do what and what your expectations are. And when you need help you ask for it. To ensure a good successful and fulfilling marriage the husband and wife need to work together harmoniously in unison like a welloiled machine. It can of course be quite challenging to work so closely with another person; to coordinate tasks between yourselves; and to divide the labor evenly based on each persons strengths and weaknesses. This is why many modern women prefer to just play the singles game. They live the single life without any of the hassle of being on a team or dealing with another person. But living the single life is unimaginably exhausting and lonely. Sure you wont have to work things out with anyone else and you can just do everything on your own But youll be alone. Marriage is a joint effort for the sake of Allah. It is a combined struggle of both the husband and the wife to build and maintain a strong Muslim family. The husband and the wife are a team. They each have assigned roles that are clearlydefined yet they dont hesitate to also step in lovingly to help one another if and when required. If you play it right you can reap all the benefits of playing doubles tennis without any of the drawbacks. May Allah bless our marriages our homes and our families. Amin.

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Age:

33 Y
Gender:

Female
Country:

Denmark
State / Province:

Hovedstaden (Copenhagen)
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Height:

5'5" (165 cm)

Weight:

102 lb
Complexion:

Wheatish Dark
Body Type:

Average
Eye Color:

Dark Brown
Hair Color:

Black
I Wear Hijab:

Always

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Country of Birth:

Somalia
Country of Origin:

Somalia
Religion:

Muslim
Ethnicity:

African Other
Languages:

Danish
Family Values:

Conservative
Education:

Bachelors (B.A/BSc/BBA)

Occupation:

Teacher
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USD
Marital Status:

Divorced (No Kids)
Diet:

Non-Vegetarian (Halal)
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No
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