Understanding and respect. Finding a perfect partner involves understanding certain essential qualities that they must have so you can build a strong bond with them. Unlike in the old times people do not just look for tall dark and handsome or bold and beautiful partners. Other than their physical appearance there are several other things to look for in a partner. A perfect relationship needs more than shared interests and feelings. Its also not necessary to look for a person who is as equal to you because diversities are resources that help both partners complete the relationship itself and improve each other